The V. Spot

What & Who Turns Us Off After Fifty

Midlife. Where Chemistry Gets Complicated.

Oct 12 • 

Vashti Whitfield

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Where Shame & Should Metastasise

Transforming Should's into Could, and Could into Can.

Oct 1 • 

Vashti Whitfield

7

September 2025

The Selfish Widow

What Grief Makes Necessary, The Boundaries It Demands

Sep 8 • 

Vashti Whitfield

8

August 2025

Passport Control

The Quiet Rebellion of Refusing to Dim Your Light.

Aug 24 • 

Vashti Whitfield

7

How to Be a Man, That is The Question

On the presence, absence, and contradictions of the men who shape us.

Aug 11 • 

Vashti Whitfield

8

From Boy To Man

The Pride, Privilege and Pain of Letting Go

Aug 7 • 

Vashti Whitfield

7

The Riskiest Risk of All

The Confession ...

Aug 1 • 

Vashti Whitfield

7

July 2025

The Brutal and The Beautiful

The Invitation You Never Asked For ...

Jul 30 • 

Vashti Whitfield

9

The Maiden Name

A Pen, Paper and Some Permission.

Jul 26 • 

Vashti Whitfield

13

Should Feels Shitty

A Letter to My Daughter

Jul 23 • 

Vashti Whitfield

16

My 40s

Me, My Grief and the Giant Italian Penis

Jul 22 • 

Vashti Whitfield

10